Let's Talk Boudoir: Answering Your Questions
If you're here, you're likely curious about doing a boudoir shoot, and that's wonderful! Maybe you're intrigued, maybe a little nervous, or maybe you're just wondering, "What's the big deal?" Trust me, you're not alone. I get these questions all the time, and I love when clients ask questions! Asking questions is the first step towards an experience that can be truly transformative. So, let's have a chat, and I'll answer all your burning questions about boudoir sessions.
I'm nervous. Is that normal?
Absolutely! It's incredibly normal to feel nervous before a boudoir session. You're stepping outside your comfort zone, and that takes courage. Think of it like this: it's the same kind of nervous excitement you feel before a first date or a big presentation. It's a sign that you're about to do something significant for yourself. And here's the best part: by the time your session is over, that nervousness will be replaced with a feeling of empowerment and confidence. I've seen it happen time and time again. Your photographer will be there to guide you, create a relaxed atmosphere, and make you feel comfortable every step of the way.
What should I wear?
This is one of the most common questions! The answer is: whatever makes you feel amazing! Think about what styles you feel confident in. Lingerie is a classic choice, of course, but you can also bring robes, silk kimonos, your favorite jeans and a button-down, a cozy sweater, or even a sports jersey. It's about expressing your personal style and celebrating your body. Many brides love to bring a special set for their honeymoon, which is a beautiful touch, or other details from their big day like their shoes, veil or dress. It's about creating a collection of looks that celebrate your individual style and shape. Bring a variety of options, or choose something from my client closet. Either way we'll work together to create looks that make you feel like a goddess.
Do I do my own hair and makeup? Do I have to find someone who does?
This is a fantastic question! You don't have to worry about finding someone yourself. I work with several incredibly talented hair and makeup artists. We'll schedule one for the hour before our photo session begins. This allows you to relax and get pampered, setting the perfect tone for your empowering experience. It's all about creating a luxurious and stress-free environment for you.
How long is the session & What happens during the session?
Hair and make up usually takes about an hour, but can be longer depending on your specific requests and the complexity of the services. I allot up to two hours for shooting, but we're often finished in an hour and a half. I build in the extra time in case you're a bit nervous or just need some time to warm up to the process. It's about ensuring you feel completely comfortable and relaxed, never rushed.
Your session will be a fun and empowering experience. You'll start with hair and makeup, which will help you feel pampered and confident. After hair and make up we will do stretches and affirmations to help you loosen up your body and hone your intention for the session. Then, you'll move on to the photography portion of the session. As your photographer I’ll help guide you through poses, offer encouragement, and create a relaxed and supportive atmosphere. The goal is to make you feel comfortable and confident, so you can truly shine.
Who sees the photos?
That's entirely up to you! The photos are for you, and you have complete control over who sees them. You can keep them private, share them with your partner, or even give them as gifts. It's your decision.
How much do you edit?
I always edit blemishes and bruises, because everyone deserves to feel their best. Beyond that, it's entirely up to you. Frequent requests include cellulite smoothing, lightening of armpits, wrinkle softening and scar removal. I believe in enhancing your natural beauty, not altering it. I don't do body modifications, as I believe that does more harm than good. It’s about creating images that reflect your authentic self.
What about inspiration? I want to do it, but I don’t know what to do exactly.
I absolutely LOVE helping with inspiration! I usually ask for a Pinterest board, so I can see what you find beautiful or sexy. But we'll also have a conversation about concepts and different directions we can take during your in-person consultation. Some recent concepts I've loved are horseback riding, cake smash, anything with water, sports-inspired themes, and book themes. I also adore helping clients construct parts of their identities or characters they fantasize about. I can help you become a goddess, domina, queen, fairy, animal, or butterfly. You tell me what lights you up, and we'll make it happen! It’s all about creating an experience that resonates with your unique vision.
I'm worried about the investment. Is it worth it?
Think of it as an investment in yourself. It's an investment in your confidence, your self-esteem, and your overall well-being. The images you create will be a constant reminder of your beauty and strength at this moment in time. And the experience itself will be transformative. Many women say that their boudoir session was one of the best things they've ever done for themselves.
What if I have scars or stretch marks?
Those are part of your beautiful story, and they're a testament to your journey. Boudoir is about celebrating your body as it is, including all its "imperfections." Scars and stretch marks are a symbol of your strength and resilience. They tell a story, and that story is beautiful. I will help you pose in ways that highlight your favorite features, and make you feel the most comfortable and confident. But you are always in control of your images. If there is something you want to be less visible, or the reduce the appearance of, I'll happy make those edits. No judgement.
Do you have a question that wasn’t answered here?
Email us at hello@sabrinaharrisonphotography.com, and we'll be happy to answer it!
Remember, this is your journey. You are beautiful, you are worthy, and you deserve to feel amazing. So, go ahead and take the chance on yourself! You won't regret it. It’s about celebrating the incredible woman you are, inside and out.
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